As 2025 begins, conversations about New Year’s resolutions are everywhere. The start of a new year feels like the perfect opportunity to clear the slate and make a fresh start.
Common resolutions like joining a gym or losing weight are very popular, but they’re not always maintained. For many, the new year also sparks a desire for deeper, more meaningful changes.
Why the New Year Brings New Clients
At the beginning of the year, we see a surge in new clients. Many are motivated by a New Year’s resolution to make their lives happier, less stressful, or free from anxiety. For some, this includes addressing issues in their relationships.
In some cases, people recognise problems in their marriage or partnership before the year’s end but hold off on taking action. Reasons vary: wanting to avoid disruption to children’s Christmases or hoping to resolve matters amicably without formal steps. However, January often becomes the time to take decisive action toward ending a relationship.
Finding the Right Solicitor for You
If you’re considering bringing a relationship to an end, it’s essential to choose the right solicitor. Here are some tips to guide you:
- Look for someone you feel comfortable with- you’ll be sharing personal details about your finances, your relationship, and your future hopes.
- While most solicitors know the law, not all can connect with their clients and empathise with their situations. Prioritise this quality when making your choice.
How to Prepare and Keep Costs Down
Preparation is key to managing costs and ensuring a smoother process. Here are some steps to take before meeting with a solicitor:
- Organise Financial Information: Gather all relevant documents, including bank statements, mortgage information, and pension details. Ensure everything is up to date.
- Assess Borrowing Capacity: Research your borrowing options to understand your financial situation better.
- Evaluate Property Values: Find out the market value of the family home and any other properties.
- Plan for Parenting Arrangements: If you have young children, think about what a fair and practical routine would look like for them to see the other parent.
What to Expect From an Initial Appointment
Most solicitors offer an initial appointment, usually 30 minutes to an hour, on a fixed-fee basis. This meeting is an opportunity to:
- Discuss your options
- Understand the potential costs
- Learn about timescales and next steps
This flexible approach is popular among clients, as it allows them to explore their situation without committing to a large legal bill. Many clients return later for additional advice or action, whether on a fixed-fee basis or for more comprehensive services.
Start the Year With Confidence
If you’re facing family-related challenges, don’t hesitate to seek professional guidance. With the right support and preparation, you can approach the new year with clarity and confidence.
If we can assist you with any family-related matters, please don’t hesitate to contact us on Judith.OBrien@prosperitylaw.com. We’re here to help.



